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Hi guys.
it is with a very sad and heavy heart that I am writing this. A lot of you have read about my situation where I am with someone who was unable to value me as a partner. As things have turned out, we moved into a new apartment together, but things have taken a turn for the worst. She has started talking now to her first ex, who she says is 'just a friend'. Yes, guys, I have been replaced by yet another man. Although I have paid for the first moth's rent and have the right to live there, it has taken all life juice out of me, when I see her texting and talking to him on the phone all the time. I used to be her best friend. And she admits I have done nothing wrong and never mistrated her. She says I am the first guy who actually EVER treated her with respect, kindness, gentleness and love. Yet, she feels she does not deserve any of that. And so she is unable to reciprocate. At the same time, all the things she says she cannot do for me, she has turned around and done them for others. Tells me a lot. I think I was just a walking penis for her.
Anyway, there are profound lessons to be learned from what I have endured, but I need to tell you guys what I am about to do. I am LEAVING. Perhaps for I dont know how long, or where. I need to find my centre, my focus and somehow, somewhere, find the courage to live again. I cannot stay in that apartment with her when I know I am nothing more than 50% of the rent check.
I have left all my stuff in her place (our place, lol), which is basically my old-school hi-fi music system, my PS3, TV, all my clothes, personal stuff, AND my GTR. All I have on me is the clothes that I am wearing right now, my toothbrush, and my pathfinder. I dont have the money or the resources to take my GTR with me. Nor do I have the ability to confront her more than I have already.
I am asking you all to let me know if there is someone who would take that GTR from me. I have spent over $6K on it, and it is a complete car (still needs the tranny & clutch to go in, along with turbos), minus the front bumper and downpipe. I am willing to give this GTR to someone who will value it and put it together to its worthy status. All I ask in return is to give me whatever you think is a fair price for what it is worth. I am not going to put a price on it. At this stage, where I am living out of my truck, I will take anything, as long as you do not disrespect and insult me with a $100 bill, lol. You know what I mean. I am posting this in the OT section because it seems unfair to have this story written down as a background to my reason for getting rid of the GTR in the Skyline for sale section. It is a very nice car, needs to be repainted (clear coat coming off), and has good 18 X 8.5" RAZE R74 wheels with rubber on it. Quantum racing/HKS suspension, no rust at all, stock engine, TOMEI exhaust and many other goodies that are all free to go with the car.
Folks, the greatest lesson I have learned from my experience is that when it comes to honor and integrity, I would let go of ANYTHING in my life to protect my word, which is that I will NEVER stop loving those who I value. Yet, I cannot honor that if I am weak. And the only way I can regain my strength to love is by distancing myself from her and her surroundings.
Whoever reads this, please pass the message along about the GTR being available. It is in Etobicoke now. Life is so full of surprises and can throw you a curve ball all the time. But I guess it is still better than the alternative....
Wish me luck in my quest for self rediscovery. I'm gonna need it.
Munib
647-242-7516
it is with a very sad and heavy heart that I am writing this. A lot of you have read about my situation where I am with someone who was unable to value me as a partner. As things have turned out, we moved into a new apartment together, but things have taken a turn for the worst. She has started talking now to her first ex, who she says is 'just a friend'. Yes, guys, I have been replaced by yet another man. Although I have paid for the first moth's rent and have the right to live there, it has taken all life juice out of me, when I see her texting and talking to him on the phone all the time. I used to be her best friend. And she admits I have done nothing wrong and never mistrated her. She says I am the first guy who actually EVER treated her with respect, kindness, gentleness and love. Yet, she feels she does not deserve any of that. And so she is unable to reciprocate. At the same time, all the things she says she cannot do for me, she has turned around and done them for others. Tells me a lot. I think I was just a walking penis for her.
Anyway, there are profound lessons to be learned from what I have endured, but I need to tell you guys what I am about to do. I am LEAVING. Perhaps for I dont know how long, or where. I need to find my centre, my focus and somehow, somewhere, find the courage to live again. I cannot stay in that apartment with her when I know I am nothing more than 50% of the rent check.
I have left all my stuff in her place (our place, lol), which is basically my old-school hi-fi music system, my PS3, TV, all my clothes, personal stuff, AND my GTR. All I have on me is the clothes that I am wearing right now, my toothbrush, and my pathfinder. I dont have the money or the resources to take my GTR with me. Nor do I have the ability to confront her more than I have already.
I am asking you all to let me know if there is someone who would take that GTR from me. I have spent over $6K on it, and it is a complete car (still needs the tranny & clutch to go in, along with turbos), minus the front bumper and downpipe. I am willing to give this GTR to someone who will value it and put it together to its worthy status. All I ask in return is to give me whatever you think is a fair price for what it is worth. I am not going to put a price on it. At this stage, where I am living out of my truck, I will take anything, as long as you do not disrespect and insult me with a $100 bill, lol. You know what I mean. I am posting this in the OT section because it seems unfair to have this story written down as a background to my reason for getting rid of the GTR in the Skyline for sale section. It is a very nice car, needs to be repainted (clear coat coming off), and has good 18 X 8.5" RAZE R74 wheels with rubber on it. Quantum racing/HKS suspension, no rust at all, stock engine, TOMEI exhaust and many other goodies that are all free to go with the car.
Folks, the greatest lesson I have learned from my experience is that when it comes to honor and integrity, I would let go of ANYTHING in my life to protect my word, which is that I will NEVER stop loving those who I value. Yet, I cannot honor that if I am weak. And the only way I can regain my strength to love is by distancing myself from her and her surroundings.
Whoever reads this, please pass the message along about the GTR being available. It is in Etobicoke now. Life is so full of surprises and can throw you a curve ball all the time. But I guess it is still better than the alternative....
Wish me luck in my quest for self rediscovery. I'm gonna need it.
Munib
647-242-7516
I totally agree with Admin about going back, and getting all your stuff. Get out for good. She's no good for you, man, and she doesn't deserve someone that's going to give everything for her while she gives nothing back. Get your stuff, get out. 
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